人都很好奇他人是如何评价自己,

想给别人留下好印象,想让别人更加重视自己,让别人觉得自己更伟大。

然而,一味在乎名声的话,有百害而无一利。

 

因为人总会给出错误的评价。

你几乎不可能收获到令自己相当满意的评价,那么评价令你大失所望反倒成了理所当然。

所以为了不让自己怒气冲天,就绝不能太在乎自己的名头,

也绝不能太关心别人的想法。否则,你就会安于各种各样的头衔带给你的快感与安心,

殊不知,你已经成为众人的眼中钉。

 

《尼采》

 

绝不可妄自菲薄,那样无异于将自己的行为与思想五花大绑。

一切从尊敬自己开始。尊敬毫无经验、甚至一无所成的自己,将自己当个真正的人看待。

 

只要你尊敬自己,便会无法作恶,便会无法做出那些不配为人的轻蔑举止。

改变活法,能让你更接近自己的理想,也能让你成为他人学习的榜样。

这样能开拓你的无限可能,并给予你将理想变为现实的力量,

要活出精彩,首先要尊敬自己

 

《尼采》

 

不为人知的考验自己,就会拥有真正的自尊心

考验自己吧,不为人知的,只有自己见证的考验

比如,在没有人监督的地方,正值地生活。

比如,在没有人看见的地方,举止端庄。

比如,不对自己撒谎。

当你克服重重考验,重新审视自我,发现自己是如此高尚时,

就会拥有真正的自尊心,它也会同时给予你强大的自信,会成为你给自己的奖励

 

《善恶的彼岸》

 

地图
记得上大学时,班上一位同学对Google Earth特别痴迷,
因为太神奇了,通过它居然可以看到学校的操场甚至宿舍楼,以及他的重庆老家的房子,呵呵


查看大图

 

哈,又是音乐,没错,放了几首很喜欢的歌、

其中有的是作为背景配乐、出自日本的配乐大师

听起来很有一种荡气回肠、恢弘而肃穆的感受,它是日本一个专题纪录片的配乐,

让人很惊讶,一个纪录片,都可以集这么强的配乐。

 

其中还有一首是久石让的,喜欢动漫的一定知道他。

 

相信很多人也一定很喜欢宗次郎,  故乡的原风景就是名作,这里就不提它了

说到这里,不得不再次感谢下TVB

如果不是TVB的金庸剧对很多背景音乐的选用,大家可要错过很多动听的曲子了。

而其中有的只是很惬意的小调,节奏感不错,像 西安事变

其实对西安的方言,我没有一丝的偏爱或者特殊的喜欢

 

只是这首歌的很多地名,听起来,在脑海里浮现时,那么熟悉……呵呵

非典的时候,头顶着烈日在校园内烦躁不安; Continue reading »

 

The Pleasure of Reading

开卷有益

All the wisdom of the ages, all the stories that delighted mankind for centuries, are easily and cheaply available to all of us within the covers of books but we must know how to avail ourselves of this treasure and how get the most value from it. The unfortunate people in the world are those who have never discovered how satisfying it is to read good books.

历史的智慧和数百年来陶冶人性的故事,所有这些都可从书中轻易获得,且花费甚少。然而,我们必须懂得如何好好利用这笔财富,从中获取最大价值。全天下最不幸的人就是那些从未体会到读书妙处的人。

I am most interested in people, in meeting them and finding out about them. Some of the remarkable people I’ve met exited only in writer’s imagination, then on the pages of his book, and then again, in my imagination. I have found in books new friend, new society and new words.

我对人颇为感兴趣,想与他们相识、相知。一些我所认识的卓越非凡的人仅仅存在于作者的想象中,然后他们的形象在文字中得到描述,最后他们活生生地出现在我的脑海里。在书中,我结交了新朋友,见识了新社会, Continue reading »

 

Feed Your Mind

Hunger of the mind can be actually satiated through extensive reading.

Now why reading and not watching TV?

Because reading has been the most educative tool used by us right from the childhood.

Just like that to develop other aspects of our life, we have to take help of reading.

You have innumerable number of books in this world which will answer all your “How to?”

questions. Once you read a book, you just don’t run your eyes through the lines,

but even your mind decodes it and explains it to you.

The interesting part of the book is stored in your mind as a seed.

Now this seed is unknowingly used by you in your future to develop new ideas.

The same seed if used many times, can help you link and relate a lot of things,

of which you would have never thought of in your wildest dreams!

This is nothing but creativity. More the number of books you read,

your mind will open up like never before.

事实上,思维的饥荒可以通过广泛的阅读为满足。为什么是阅读而不是选择看电视呢? Continue reading »

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